Girls from Eastern Europe, Poland , Ukraine , Belarus and Russian date men for the purpose of marriage, to be a wife.
Perhaps the title of this post should be ‘the choice is yours’. I think there are big differences in the dating and mating selection game in the USA, UK and Eastern Europe. Differences so large you could sail a ship though them. Why? The culture is different. Many, if not all, of my American friends that married American women are not happy.
They are just waiting for the sweet kiss of death to set them free. Why? Read on.
In contrast, my friends that married to girls from Poland or Russia are universally happy. Why? read on.
In countries like Poland, Ukraine and Russian girls take their boyfriend's arm and let them lead.
Important disclaimer: this is not about every American and Western European women. This is not about every Russian women or Eastern European women. However, the cultures of these two societies have produced different views on women towards life and marriage.
Why am I writing this? Well because myself and basically every American guy who is or was single and tried with sincere intentions to date an American girl, found themselves shocked at the childish, flakey games that were played. I want to point out cultural differences that perhaps made this happen. I want to help some American guys who are thinking this is the way it has to be, realize in life you always have a choice.
It does not have to go like this. You do not have to wait for the sweet kiss of death to set you free. You do not have to give your house and half your money to someone you despise. You can live happily every after with your princess.
Eastern European girls compared to Western European and American girls
Eastern European girls are straight they want to get married and find their husband or what is the point of dating. American girls often date more for ego gratification and have a cool boyfriend while they get their careers going. When they get their careers going and entrenched habits, then they find a husband for them to have their child with. Not the lover boy they have been dating, but someone who has money. In contrast, Eastern European women are looking for their one and only. Lets look at some of the cultural differences between American and Eastern European girls for marriage.
American women for marriage
Remember this is not everyone. There is no way you can generalize. Rene Descarte said every generalization is a distortion of the truth. On the other hand I think if you are a guy looking to get married, maybe you not only consider the girl next door but the whole world like Eastern and central European ladies. Here is what you might get if you decide on dating a women for love and marriage from America,how the world’s culture has changed:
- Less than healthy weight for their frames and bone structure.
- Sassy
- Short hair
- Tattoo rich skin
- Piercings in odd parts of their bodies
- Can not dance
- Does not know speak a foreign language
- Little or no intellectual curiosity – I have often tried to get into intelligent conversations about anything, and they just shut down. This is a real sore point for me.
- Do not play the violin or any other musical instrument at any real level.
- Can not locate most European or Asian countries besides the UK or France on a map.
- Having a grande latte at Starbucks is standard and a must or they are grumpy.
- Dominant. When are American girls going to realize being submissive is attractive not dominant. Dominant is a weakness for people who need to control.
- Having a pets instead of a family (and if you are their boyfriend must just love their cat).
- Puts career as a priority instead of a family in their 20s.
- Puts her girlfriends instead of her boyfriend, fiancé or husband in terms of trust.
- Has problems with her childhood family usually her father.
- Yet insists on keeping her father’s family name if married or hyphen-ing it.
- Tries to impress you with their résumé or accomplishments instead of knowing how to cook and taking care of a family.
- Multi partners and boyfriends simultaneously. Are these women?
- Talk about their past relationships to you like you are an old friend, even mentioning all the things her ex boyfriends did to impress, usually involving expensive trips and gifts.
- Tell you ‘I have never done this before’ when in all probability they have done it all the time.
- Have various forms of ‘protection’ in the purse or dresser draw near their bed, if they meet that random cute waiter or guy from a club.
- When they meet you in broad daylight at a coffee shop for a date to the museum after chatting with them on match.com for a month, ask you, ‘how do I know you are not a dangerous freak?’ While that same girl who was totally drunk at 2 am last Saturday night leaves a disco with a strange macho looking guy to goes back to his apartment for boom boom. The next day she will explain it to her girlfriends as something that ‘just happened’.
- Have no style and do not even know they have no style. America is not the style capital of the world despite the inordinate amount of money women spend at stores like the Gap.
- Girls see cooking (an expression of love) as demeaning or only for special occasions. They will do every nasty thing with guys all over town, but these same girls think cooking,a sweet innocent expression of love, is humiliating. Feminists have twisted innocent expressions of love, like cooking, so much that many people are confused. Let me give you a hint, love is something that is not written about under ‘tips for the bedroom’ in Cosmo magazine as much as giving your time and patience everyday to someone you care about, like cooking.
- American girls want a rich guy to marry. They want a guy who works four hours a day and can surprise them with expensive weekend trips. I believe like the Beatles’ song says ‘money can’t buy you love’.
- Thinking a rich guy is a good catch. Let me give you a piece of advise, a well paid job is very over rated.
- Spend lots of money on things.
- When are Western girls going to stop believing the stuff they see on TV and start realizing that the most important job in the world is to make your family happy, raising happy children and making your husband happy? Why is it that feminists try to sell you the ridiculous lie that it is more important pleasing and severing your boss (master) than the person you marry and promise their life to in front of God and others. Work to American girls are more important than their partner in life (your husband) or spending time with your children. Children need their mommy not some day care specialist, while mommy is bending over backwards for their boss at work. Women often put more energy into their bosses demands than the needs of their children and husband.
- I think women are equal and have no problem with careers, but career is nothing compared to love and family.
- I am 100% man but I will not put anything before my family. I will not put ego, feeling good about myself, the need to be right, the need to prove myself, to be a VIP career guy before making sure my family has enough love and time with me. Of course I have to work, but family first.
Now lets look at Eastern European women, who I recommend for to any American guy who is looking to get have a happy life.
Women moderate themselves in Eastern Europe and remain thin.
Eastern European girls for marriage
- Thin
- stylish
- cook
- clean
- Try to find one man and mate for life
- Spiritual
- Take pride in taking care of a family
- Intellectually curious
- Speak several languages
- Have and interest in music and play musical instrument
- Can dance
- Easy going
- Will stay with you
- Will not talk about you to their friends in a negative way
- You come first
- Submissive
On the other hand, if you are a guy who likes these cultural characteristic of American girls listed above, then they are for you. This is not any judgement, rather just laying out the differences and you choose which culture you would rather marry in. I recommend considering not marrying the girl next door and going for an Eastern European girl for marriage as in my personal experience they will bring you happiness. Why get married if you are not going to play to win and go for your dream.
21 responses to Eastern European girls for marriage
You are incorrect about American women. I’m from the USA, a good weight, 120lbs, 5″4 and take great pride in looking good and am nothing like you describe. I think the problem really is with most American men. Example: I was with my son’s father for 17 years and unfortunately that ended. I didn’t date for a year and started dating a man my sister’s husband works with. I will tell you, the entire first year he basically said my son was rotten because at 6 years old he would have melt downs when he was tired etc and his son was just perfect. He also would degrade his EX wife in front of me and my son. Blamed the entire divorce on her which I know is not true. It takes two people to make it work. He never looked at “his shortcomings”. It was so much easier to blame everyone else. This same person would invite us places and never tell us we had to pay, I found out when I got there. He and his son would also walk in front of my son and I as if we weren’t together. You see, he always made his son more important than everyone else, even his son’s mother and left everyone behind. This same person once said “F___” my son because he didn’t want to go some where with him because he said “J___s” never does anything with me which was true. I let this man treat me and my son like 2nd class citizens and after 2 yrs of trying to talk to him about them I just got angry at him, thought that maybe he would listen but that didn’t happen. He then went on a MOD site and brought a girl over from Albania a month after I broke it off with him, told me it was a “MUTUAL” thing and that he might make the biggest mistake of his life but he might just marry her in a month which he did. Now, you want to generalize about american women, however, the american man is no prize either if you want to generalize. This man and this woman from a foreign country came over here to live with a man she barely knows and he let her live there for 2 months and didn’t know her. Now I find that absurd, either one of them could have turned out to be a psycho! Albanian women are not great as you describe, I think they are no different than any other woman. This same woman he married had a site up on WAYN.com with pictures of her and a man from 2007 that were quite chummy. Now why if you are now in the USA and married to a man in the USA? And you want to talk about american women being over weight, have you seen most american men? They are quite over weight as well and I will say that my EX is one of them (as well as very needy and afraid of being alone) although I did not look at that as being a reason not to date him. I think you need to look long and hard at what you are saying. There are wonderful american women and men if you look. I don’t think anyone needs to BUY a women from a foreign country. I think most people need to look inside themselves and see what mistakes they have made and fix them and learn to love themselves. Once that happens, that will open a whole new world for you however most people don’t want to fix anything about themselves, it’s too easy to blame someone else and move on. My Ex used to tell me how much he loved me and wanted to marry me, even the last time I was with him in October2009 however it was very easy for him to bring someone over from a foreign country that he didn’t even know, have her live there for 2 months, bring her back in a month and marry her. I have no respect for anyone who would do this, what about love, respect, friendship? Apparently that matters very little to american men as it does to the some of the women of Albania? I’ve heard from other Albanian women who state that they do not marry for love, they marry so someone can take care of them. I will say most american women look for love not money as a reason to marry!
Eastern European girls for marriage
I am very sorry to hear about your experiences with you husband. Men are jerks sometimes and no country, gender or people have a monopoly on good or bad people. I do not have any wisdom for you as I do not know enough about you. Are you following the Bible or are you just living? I do not know. Find someone who care about you and shares your beliefs in love an marriage. I do not believe in living together before marriage (or really even s_x for that matter). Find someone who is really will care for you and love you for who you are. I am sorry you had those bad experiences and that I do not have any wisdom.
I stay in America for a few year to study, and found what you said is true in many ways but then and again I was at Wisconsin where intellect in girls is…
I am from Singapore and have great media influence from America, sadly, so most people have “values” of America media greatly.
In terms of woman in Asia, from what you posted so far about eastern Europeans, many of the similar values of woman can be found (sadly not in Singapore since its the guys who knows how to cook instead), are found in pockets of Asia like, Vietnam, Malaysia, maybe even Japan and Korea. What I do realize is woman generally look for love in an lesser economic countries than in greater economic countries.
To Nomad, Maybe what you say is true but I find it so degrading to talk to someone for about a month and agree to come from your country to live with them. You don’t know if what they are telling you is true and why can’t you find someone in your own country? Why do you need to come to the USA to marry? I will say this, my Ex knew that he was marrying this girl the moment she got here. He knew that in Jan. when I talked to him. They apparently had a mutual agreement to marry. I find it so sad that you would sell sex and love as if they were commodities just to avoid being alone. What happened to getting to know someone, being friends, seeing where that leads? Instead, you come from your country, live with a man you don’t know and sleep with him? Now, how degrading is that? It’s no different than picking up someone in a bar and sleeping with them. Where’s your self respect? I guess since they decided, sight unseen that they would marry that it was ok to sleep together. I think some women, regardless of where they come from have no self respect otherwise you wouldn’t do some of the things you do. I happen to love myself and respect me and will not settle or sleep with anyone unless there is a commitment there and of course love. I have to say about him, he apparently has very little self respect also. How could you so easily give up someone you profess to love so much for a Mutual agreement?? He once told me that if had not been in “a friends wedding” I would have never noticed him and he may be right, not sure about that. This statement spoke volumes to me, this basically said you feel like your not worth a lot and do not respect or even love yourself. The sad thing here is that I still love this person and really hope that he’s happy.
ADMIN, you are by far the rudest most dead WRONG, insluting person Ive encountered in a long time. You spew nothing but hatred and lies about American women. Im so impressed that you have come up with such a long list of insults. One would think that with all your bragging about your perfect, size 4, Eastern European princess, you would be spending time with her rather than writing these stupid articles!
You are nothing more than a spinless jerk. You call yourself a “Christian”? What real man of God would devote his time to write such vindicitive and mean article about women that God created!?
Just because you struck out with some women in the USA for whatever reason(maybe it was YOU who was the problem),does not give you a right to go on here insulting other cultures. You said you know so much because you have traveled.Just because youve VISITED places a few time does NOT mean you know everything. How can you make all these observations of different women unless you have dated or become very personal and know these women for quite sometime.
Maybe, the reason why American women didnt like you was because you they thought you were a rude jerk. And I can rightfully say that just by reading this article alone, I would have to agree.
Butterfly-
Do not listen to anything this guy says. He is wrong on many things. I know many cultures he praises as being the same ones that marry for security or money more than American women.
HE is a self righteous twirp who got probably got burned by a few Americans and now devotes his time to making a website about how terrible we all are.
Some of the best, most caring, Christian, unmaterialistic and BEAUTIFUL/SKINNY women, I know are American.
People like him like to trash us and give us a bad name to other Ameican men or other cultures. If he is so happy in his marriage then why is he doing this? Writing all these insults? He proves himself naive and ignorant to think that all Americans are like this. How can he say not all American women are like this but then makes a rediculously long list of the cons of an American girl?
People like you, admin are really ruining it for us nice American girls to have a chance at love. There are more us nice girls than you think. You are one person, how is it very likely that you have done all this extensive research in your short years? Wow, I am inpressed.
Im guessing you are basing your entire opinion on a few bad experiences of you or another friend’s.
I have never felt to upset at a stupid article before, and I am usually a very kind person but you just really hit a nerve with me. Good luck with your perfect euro princess.
Eastern European girls for marriage
Raquel, I appreciate your feedback but look, you are taking it from only one point of view. That is you are a good girl in America. I was a good boy growing up in the good old USA. I stayed true to my morals and had the worst possible dating experiences.
Try to put yourself in the shoes of a guy in America. I think without exception women I date believed in divorce, abortion, multiple partners and if I raised issues with this, I was looked at like strange.
I never really meet a girl that was just wanted love and marriage in the basic sense. Well maybe one or two but there were always so many conditions and judgments.
I really did not meet just a girl that did not talk about all her past boyfriends or thought cooking was a sign of submission.
When I came to Eastern Europe, the place my grandparents were from, basically all the girls were morally on the same page as me. They saw family as sacred and God as the center of their lives. These girls were normal girls who just wanted a normal life.
In the USA there are many girls like this. Women like yourself who has wisdom. But I just personally did not meet any or many and this seems to be the general idea of most guys in the USA.
Nothing about specific women, but rather a reflection of the society and the direction it is going.
But remember I grew up in New England and the social economics mores of this area are not like say the Bible belt or the mid west. So some of my experiences have skewed my view of things.
But I think most guys would agree, it is very hard to find someone to marry in the USA and this is based on statistics like divorce rates, single mothers as well as personal experience. But it is not about American women as a whole. Just their experiences.
While in contrast, I do not know one American personally in Eastern Europe, not happy in their marriage or relationship. I am sure they exist but I do not know them.
Point proven about some American masculine women
Unforunately with the way you came out swinging in such a masculine manner (even after the author says “It’s not all American women) you proved his point.
HA! I just missed the list or why Eastern Euros are better!
“submissive”
Okay I get it now, he want a women he can boss around to make himself feel superior over!
And the “stylish” one is debatable too. Ive seen some rather indecently dressed Eastern Euro women, not to mention out of date clothing.
Then he says “spiritual”, ha, really? Most seem pretty secular to me.
You actually seem to me, like part of the problem of the “Terrible American Woman”. Guys like you go around bad mouthing us all on websites like this, making us ALL seem bad. You have some nerve. Most people are intelligent enought to know that EVERY culture had people with traits on your Terrible American Women list. There is good and bad in any culture.
Maybe you need to realize that you are comparing rather small countries with considerably LESS of a population than to that of the U.S. a very populated country.
Also, many Eastern Euro women “spend lots of money on things” too. How else do they all prance around in designer handbags, and boots and fur coats? I see it all the time. I guess they just got them for free, uh yeah.
Humility is perhaps the greatest virtue as it stand in opposition of pride. If you read Dante pride is what causes the most falls of all the deadly sins. In contrast Lust is the most forgivable as it is only misdirected love.
Therefore submissive is desirable in both genders when choosing a mate. It makes life a lot easier on a day to day basis. You do not want to be always engaged in a power struggle with your other half.
I work at home for example so for many years have been with my wife 24/7. Maybe 1 or 2 or so a week we are not together when I have to go somewhere. But at home it is just peace and harmony. This is why I highly recommend people find a spouse with humility, it will bring joy to your love life.
Why don’t you talk about that (humility) instead of nationality? If that is truly what you are interested in? Maybe if you are so much into this self help mentality, you should write a book on how to make ones self more humble, instead of generalizing an entire nation. This way, you can serve your god, and make people better, and at the same time, not judge people. You give them the opportunity to make themselves better instead of creating a caste type system. Seems like a far more optimistic take on the whole issue. Finding a place where people are “right” isn’t nearly as important, as creating a healthier system for the whole world. You seem to carry a lot of resentment towards western culture, and maybe you should think of turning the negative energy into something more productive.
Marry a girl from Eastern Europe
Point noted.
I and many guys I know would like to make the world a better place. I agreed. I would love to change the world. I dream of a world of peace and acceptance. I always think if you want to change the world, be the change you dream of. Live in an accepting way. I hope I do. I mean I am so idealistic about peace, equality and love and even if the world around me is not, I choose to be.
However, when it comes to mating and dating, life is short. I simply recommend that guys (and girls) go for what they really want in a mate. Go for what you want. Do not compromise, do not be afraid to marry your dream.
For example, when I lived in Boston, a religious town full of educated people, I met girls who were doing the career thing until they were in their 30s and going from partner to partner. Every one I meet did not really go to church, expected to be taken to dinner, talked about their last boyfriend, talked about how important their career was, talked about how they do not cook, but make up for it in another way ‘wink, ‘wink’. They went one talking about boring things and how they have more guy friends than girls. They said they are totally honest and this is why guys do not like them and had very strong opinions, even when shown evidence to the contrary would not back down. They went on how they were strong women (I think a strong woman is like a strong man, someone who listens and cares with empathy). Of course not all woman were like that. However, this was my personal experience.
It is not how I was raised. I was raised not to talk about yourself. I was raised that money does not matter. I was raised family is the only thing in life that is important. Career is not.
In contrast in Eastern Europe all the girls I know go to Church and many even beat their chest in forgiveness if they cross in front of a church or at least bless themselves. They have Masters degrees, speak several languages and dream of cooking and taking care of a man and having children.
Although this is not every guys dream to have a normal family life with a girl who will cook and take care of the family without complaining, it is many. And if it is Eastern Europe might be one option when considering a mate. Why not?
So there are big cultural differences in the world. This is not saying one is right or wrong but just different. If you are a guy and you dream of a family consider Eastern European girls for marriage. Be open to the possibility that your princess is not always the girl next door.
Eastern European girls for marriage
Wow- each of these comments, responding to the author is just proving his point! No man wants to marry another “Man”.
Get site admin just awesome. I agree with you American women just useless. I would like to know the polishing dating sites you have recommended before. I can’t fine them in the comments. I can’t speak Polish, but that is fine as Google will translate the pages automatically. I am with you on eastern European women just blow all other women out of the water.
It is not that are useless, just not who I would personally want to marry in many, but not all cases. If you are an American guy chances are you have had enough of their childish mind games, materialistic attitude and want a wife who will treat you with love and kindness. I married a girl from Eastern Europe and very happy I did.
Polish dating sites:
sympatia.onet.p
randki.interia.pl
nightlife.pl
I’m a guy from Egypt and I met a girl from Hungary from a Village named “Veszprém”; I met that girl in Paris and I would like to say that it was so Kind ; she used to help me cooking and she gives me to eat so many times and of course since i’m orthodox from Egypt ; I want to marry ;it is normal in Egypt to marry not just to have a girl friend so I told her that marriage in West Europe is not a goal as I saw French girls but she told me that marriage in Hungary and making family is very important and when she finishes her study she will think of course of marriage ; also i met a girl from Romania she was young like the hungarian and she is looking also for marriage so it is normal for the Eastern countries to make a family especially in poor countries because money destructs every good concepts in Life ; so what you said about Eastern countries is right to a big extent and honestly I don’t the USA and their girls ; all I know about them is that they have a big chest because they eat burger all the time.
So very true about American and Scandinavian girls
Exactly on the spot. Very true. You might say that Scandinavian girls are just like the american: Tattoed, overweight, dumb and bitchy. There are exceptions, but not many. Another problem, you might add, is that many scandinavian girls have done drugs. That is a big turn-off in my book.
I will no more be politically correct and suffer. I have had enough.
I'm a girl from East Europe
Hey,everyone, I’m a girl from Eastern Europe ,but I must say, it’s all not true. Yes, we are interesting, we are into playing the piano,the guitar, reading books, cooking,but we like to be bossy as well. What do you mean by saying ‘they will stay with you’ or ‘you can come first’?
I need more information, which country are you from in Eastern Europe? How old are you and what do you do? All this might determine what your world view is. I think Eastern European girls from Western Ukraine and Poland take a pretty faithful view when it comes to marriage. They will stay with you and do not believe in divorce generally. You will be first and last in their life.
American vs Foreign
I won’t sit here and bash American women,after all, dating is a matter of choice. I will say this much though, after dating girls from LA, Denver, Seattle, NY, and Miami.I find a great difference in culture enrichment between American women and foreign women that I appreciate, and I’m sure it works vice versa sometimes for American women aswell as how they see American men. I think a lot of what most guys are saying here has to do with the experience of embracing a whole new culture attached to their sexuality. In my experience, this has made my relationship dating European women a lot more enjoyable than American. The experience of being exposed to a new culture,travel, different food than accustomed to, you feel a very different connection. I mean who wouldn’t? Regardless if you’re a girl or guy. It’s something nice to experience.
I am not bashing American women. It is just that every American woman I know under 50 years old has gone through divorce. I was even watching Survivor One world and Kim Spradlin won. She is about as sweet and all American as you can get but she is divorced. Why did Kim Spradlin get divorced? I do not know but I think she made a comment like she would rather sit alone than sit next to someone she does not like.
That in my book is called dating. marriage is stay with someone for better for worse.
If you find an American girl, just make sure she is high-minded or you will find yourself as some chump who is on the short end of the stick after a divorce and all the blaime will be going on you.
Why do American women get divorced? I think they have a low level of commitment. I am married and I can not imagine a reason why I would ever leave my wife. Ever.
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