Do you want the cell phone number of a beautiful Indian girl? Does not everyone? Many guys dream to simply sit back, find the mobile number of an Indian girl and start to SMS her, texting her from some phone directory or some no. found on the Internet, and see if something works. It might even lead to true love. What is the issue?
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The issue is women make you work for them, especially from a traditional country like India. It is the female nature to build trust and make you wait. Therefore, mobile phones, the new virtual relationship venue, is not always quick and easy. The purpose of this post is to give you some ideas one way or another to get Indian girls mobile numbers for friendship. If you really want to try to find out where and how here are some ideas. I will give you one very good website for you to explore in this regard, but first read my view on telecommunication dating.
Indian women and their relationship with their cell phone
I teach languages. I can not say that my female students are better with verbal communication, but I can say, they do like to talk more in class. I think this is because their brains have more connections in the verbal and audio centers than men. Why? Because they often are the ones responsible for transmitting language and speech to their children. Hence the term mother tongue.
Do you think girls from India will just post their mobile numbers on the Internet for you to call or text message them?
What does this have to do with getting mobile numbers from a Bangalore girl? Everything. Women like verbal communication in the same way men like surfing the Internet. Women like to talk and love cell phones. Men do not talk as much and prefer to think about the next steps and strategies in life and think in abstract way. Men use phones for business, unless then are talking to a lady of course. Men are simply not as chatty. For example, I do not even own a cell phone, I just use a Skype. On the other hand, how often are you driving along and you see a girl talking her mobile walking down the street?
Indian women secretly do not mind using the telephone for a mysterious connection with some guy. The telephone is a natural invention for them. I have had women friends say they had this happen to them. Some random guy sends them and SMS and they reply innocently or naively. They build a rapport and then even chat. However, I have never heard of two people really meeting this way. Maybe they do not confess.
I have had guy friends find numbers of women and begin to SMS them under the pretense of a wrong number and strike up a rapport. I think at the end of the day women will not accept this as a reasonable way to meet a long-term partner, but maybe. I wrote a similar article here on Pakistani girls mobile numbers
There are mobile phone dating sites. I have even thought of starting one, but I think it would be too much work, and not my style. I do not have any dating sites by the way. Besides not being my style, you would have to moderate thousands of cell phone no from Indian girls and guys to make sure they are legitimate. I use to even worked for a company that did something like this, that is mobile phone dating and profile moderation for dating sites. I like real better than virtual.
Getting mobile numbers in person is best and do not make it a virtual relationship
The best way to get a girls from Kolkata mobile numbers (for example) is go there and meet them in person. Meet them in dance class, or take yoga or a literature class, or meet them on the street by talking to them. Then ask them for their phone number and then arrange a date at a coffee shop.
If you can get their number call them up on the phone and directly ask for the date- read how I asked for e-mail when I should have asked for a phone number.
Many times with girls I tried to get to know I use to have great courage and be able to chat them up on the street. I would charm them and then ask for e-mail. What am I crazy? I asked for their e-mail, not their phone number. Why did I do this? The reason is I am on the Internet a lot, working and writing e-mails. I though this was a better way to build a rapport. But this was a huge mistakes, I learned this latter. If I had the girl laughing and chatting with me in person, why would I regress to some virtual relationship? I do not know, maybe I am a geek or think girls do not want to really date me. They did not like it at all. They wanted a call on the phone and a date, not weeks of Internet banter, no matter how witty.
In a word, I blew it. I could have called them but I e-mailed them.
Ways to get mobile phone numbers from Indian girls for friendship
I think a lot of Indian guys are Internet geeks and shy, like me and would rather find a sms a girl or find them virtually. This is OK but remember this is a guys way not a female way. Whether they are Kerala girls or Chennai girls instead of finding their mobile phone number on the Internet, go to these places in India and meet them in a coffee shop or a bookstore.
Then after chatting them up, ask them something like this:
‘Would you be terribly offended if you meet sometime on a cordial basis.’ Say those exact words. Say them with a smile. It sounds cheesy but it works. If they say ‘well, uhm, I do not know you’… tell them: ‘please just say maybe’. If they like you they will give you a ‘maybe’ and that is really a yes. They will give you their telephone number, then you make them wait. Do not SMS them.
Oh, yes you better believe they will be checking their text messages and voice message, every ten minutes, wondering. Read my lips, make them wait. Then when you are ready, call them. Make the telephone conversation up beat, light and breezy. Suggest a date, a walk in the park, for example. After that you are on your own. But if you did this, just like I said you will have no problem getting a date.
Indian girls mobile numbers for friendship
- Therefore, my point is the mobile phone is a tool, not an end in itself. I know man, I have been there myself, working long hours and no way to meet girls other than with technology. Go national culture and travel site and consider a trip. In incredible India and you will meet women for friendship and communication and come back with a phone book full of numbers and you might even be an expert on local area codes.
- If you really still want to try use Foursquare. It is social networking with your mobile phone and if you fine an Indian city you can socialize with Indian girls on your mobile phone. List of numbers it is not, but a very good website it is. It is getting popular in Asia.
Did you really think I would recommend any less than legitimate ways of getting cell phone number from girls from Delhi. If you are looking to call a girl in Mumbai it is better you know here in person first.
7 responses to Indian girls mobile numbers list
HI, This was a nice blog,i appreciate it. However I have a different story and I don’t agree meeting in person or directly asking for a date or mobile number work always.Indian girls are more or less traditional and conservative.They always need time they are not quick decision maker. I think if you are stranger, girls will not give you their number directly. For making good rapport you need to get introduced with the girl first in a proper fashion, moreover you are not aware of the mood of a girl who is passing by on a street. If you approach a girl in her bad temper you might loose.
Interesting one….I have my share of satisfactory experiences when it comes to girls and women( I prefer experience). Well have dated female, whose no I just took from somewere…dont remember were, Played a prank, for eg. Sending them a text supposed for a friends who owes you money, and den pretending you did it by mistake….You need to make it write and sound genuine. I believe trust is the basic factor. You can even win a women/grls trust even by lieing. Lemme quote here” Dont assume they cannot catch the lie, they serisouly do” But they dont want to miss your company. There on you need to be honest. Even if they ask you Nth no of times were you got the no, the answer shud always be “It was a mistake”.
Another point which I want to put it across, which makes me knw more about female in general is, I have been blunt very blunt to the point, often asked women out right in the second sms(were i confront it was a mistake) and it works.
Not being a love guru, the sum up is, you want them, they want you, rather they would be more desperate then you. Neither they show nor they expect you to show that….Wats say guy, and would definetly welcome views from the feminine part of our society.
A signoff note….Don’t be trouble to this beautiful creations, just play along as you 2 enjoy. If you cant, then try on the other one, and let them enjoy..Keep it in mind, your not doing good to your self yet coming in the way of others…
Interesting one experience with girls mobile phone numnber. I have my share of satisfactory experiences when it comes to girls and women (I prefer experience). Well once dated a female, whose mobile phone number I just took from somewhere on the Internet, don’t remember where. I played a prank, for eg. What I did was sent her text message intended for a friend. An innocent SMS.
You need to write the SMS nice and sound genuine. I believe trust is the basic factor.
I have been blunt very to the point, and often asked women out right in the second sms (once I tell them it was a mistaken telephone number) and it works.
Not being a love guru, the sum up, you want them, they want you, they might be more desperate than you, but this is a good thing and the way men and women meet, even it it is through a cell phone mistaken no.
Getting an Indian girl's mobile phone number is like Cricket
This is my perspective on getting an Indian girl’s phone number. If you really want to get their mobile number, do it in the most natural way-by talking to her in person, of course. This is way better than any roundabout way of searching for cell phone numbers on the Internet.
How to date a girl like me
Do you want a normal girl like me? Learn to chat them up face to face. I know it is hard, but develop your skills. Have the expectation that you will be rejected by 99 out of 100 girls you try to talk to. If a girl rejects you it often has to do with her own fears and insecurities so do not take it personally.
Getting an Indian girl phone number is like the game cricket
When chatting up women, you have to learn to dive, pull and hook, sweep and slog any thing that gets you a hit. However, realize that most Cricket batters do not score every time they come up to bat. Why do guys have such low confidence? I mean if ten girls reject you, so what? If 100 girls reject you so what? We do not mean anything by it. It is just this or that. Either develop your flirting technique or continue stepping up to the bat with other girls. Do not worry about rejection. I mean do any cricket stars have 100% statistics?
I know Indian guys are shy and Indian dating culture is conservative, but you need to have courage to at least consider trying. So I would say if there’s a chance you can meet a girl where you live, give it a try. I am a pretty girl and would give my phone number to a guy I meet her person, but would not post it on the Internet.
Why getting a mobile number is possible online
However, all that being said, a virtual friendship is not a bad start either, it just takes a little more time and effort from both sides. This means time to write back and forth. A lot of my friends start dating guys from the Internet, but only after a lot of e-mails, chatting and then sms text message. Do not even think of mentioning anything sexy. Write only respectable e-mails about topics that girls like. Read up on Indian female writers for example like Nayantara Sahgal, or better yet Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni with her romantic magical realism. What girl could not be impressed by a guy who can connect with things like that.
Texting about Hindi modern popular literature will score more points than chats about Bollywood stars. Although if you tell her she looks like Amisha Patel or something, it could get a smile. And smiles are aways good.
Whether you chat with her in real life or on the phone, remember that chivalry and lots of respect are the gold. Indians really love poetry and flowery words because it is a traditional culture and romance is still alive. But do not pour it on in the first conversation. However, this is important, the first conversation you might be thinking about getting her phone number but the girls is thinking what is this guy about?
First conversation is decisive. You have to al least give her hope that you could be Mr. Right.
What do I know, I am a girl. I think if I was a guy I think I would be dateless, to be honest as I am a coward about dating.
Complementing an Indian girl – details and specifics and sincere
Anyway, I do not like it when guys give too many compliments. I am thinking, they are insincere as this guy does not even know me. Be careful with compliments – an average Bengaluru girl would rather hear she has a pretty dress than beautiful eyes. This way she knows you’re admiring her but at the same time she can remain modest.
But do not just say she has a pretty dress. That is really boring. My eyes are glazing over just thinking about it.
Tell her a specific detail about her dress like you like the pattern. Ask her where she got it. Girls are really into details and specifics, not general and abstract. That is guy speak.
Just abstract ideas like ‘you are beautiful’ does not give you much traction one a first date. This kind of compliment can also have some other hidden meanings. Whatever you do, do not make your compliments excessive or too straightforward.
A note about Sms or tex messages
It doesn’t matter whether you talk to her in person or via sms. Don’t try too hard, or she will feel harassed. Do not attack her with a text message every 2 minutes if she doesn’t respond either, she might be busy and it’s a big turn off for anyone.
If the girl does not reply, it does not mean she is not reading it. Believe me we are reading your text messages. It is our nature to think about things and analysis everything and over analysis it again. So a well written sms or text message is many times more powerful than a barrage of messages to her cell phone. One good message about something specific is better than that general cliché stuff people sms each other.
Impress me with culture rather than sexting
Want to know another good way of making a positive impression on a Hindi woman? Discuss her country, its culture, architecture and customs in a specific way not general.
If you don’t know much about where she comes from, ask some questions and be a good listener when she answers. This applies especially to Hindi girls, as they are very fond of their country and beliefs, but will also work with any other foreign girl. I’m Polish and I love it when foreign guys say something nice about my country or ask me about it. If an Indian guy knows something about Polish culture, this gets by attention.
Also, let her know that you are well-educated and successful. If you’re not, you can replace it with being ambitious, spiritual or religious. It’s not about the money, it’s just that nobody wants to date a blah guy. Tell her about your passions, and the more unusual they are, the better. Girls do not want to know what you are but in what direction you are going.
If you do these things, you increase your chances of getting to Indian girls mobile numbers and subsequently texting (not sexting, remember) for a date. Or to use my cricket metaphor, score a hit when you get up to bat.
Indian girls mobile numbers
India trip planned but no exact date
I might be planning a trip to India maybe more in the south like Andra Pradesh,Kamatka, Kerala and Tamil. If anyone has any places to recommend let me know. I think I will travel by train, although I have heard it is a long tiring form of communication between cities. I have done it in Russia with no issues.
welcome to india
My name is Raman from India. If you really plan to come to india then best places for you is Rishikesh, the Golden temple, Amritsar, Delhi, Mumbai and Goa beaches. I have met many foreigners, including Russian girls in Goa. Therefore, for foreign girls in India I Goa and other resoprt towns are where you want to chat them up.
Nice work on explaining girls and phone numbers
It is a good start for those who just think girls are business particles. In fact many of them don’t regard them as being human beings. They are just the opposite gender of what we are. And communicating with females should be just the same as how we communicate with other guys. Thanks for an eye opener article for everyone about Indian girls numbers.
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