Ukrainian girls who live in European Ukraine are better for love
What is European Ukraine? Technically all of Ukraine is in Europe, however, Western Ukraine from Ternopil to Lviv has a different character (regarding live and love) than Kiev and Dnipropetrovsk or Odessa.
Ukrainian girls
These Eastern and Southern regions of Ukraine often have girls that I would call Soviet girls. Certainly not all the girls, maybe not even most of the girls are Soviet girls, but many have a mentality that religion does not matter and that materialism does.
In Western Ukraine the girls have the attitude that money does not matter as much as spiritual values and love. Why? Soviet influence was resisted by Ukrainians more in the west. The west had close ties with Europe, while the east had ties with Russia.
Which Ukrainian girls are better brides
Find your love and bride in Ukraine
Amazing women are found all through out Ukraine. Decartes said ‘ever generalization is a distortion of the truth’. I agree. I would marry a girl from any region.
However, me personally, I am partial. My grandparents came from Ternopil Oblast and I live in Krakow, however, I am an American. I have travelled all though Ukraine many times. There are amazing ladies everywhere.
However, if I were to look for a bride (I am married so I am not looking) I would look in Western Ukraine if spiritual values and true love matters. If material values matter more to you than real love than I would look in Eastern Ukraine and in particular Kiev, but watch out for the clever girl who sees you as a meal ticket.
Dertermine what European Ukrainian girls love
How to test a girl from Ukraine
Be smart, ask question early about values and observe behavior. Ask indirect questions or make indirect comments about how they feel about life and money, love and values.
I married a girl who wanted to stay in Poland, rather than wanted to moved to the USA. I saw her family were devout humble people as she was.
I saw in the early dating phase my girl was going to church, even without me. She told me straight out that she would rather be poor and with her destiny than marry a little for money and a little for love, like many European girls or women in the world today.
Think of ‘Slum dog” the film, you want a girl who can be with you in rich and poor times, if you are healthy or sick, not a fair weather fan (if you marry for money its the hardest way to earn it).
Ask them these questions if you are serious about love. Better yet observe how they respond to different hypothetical questions. Do not let the sickness of the western Europe and America toward love and marriage infect your soul. Love and marriage transcend everything make sure your love feels the same.
Bride tours
Get a flight on your own and book an apartment or just the flight and a Babcia (a Ukrainian old lady) will find you at the train station and airport and invite you to their home to stay for 5 dollars a night a real home cooked meal. You will meet better girls for love than on these very commercial marriage tours to Ukraine. I would not take a bride tour, as its pricey and commercial.
How to meet Ukrainian girls for love
How to meet girls from Western Ukraine
Explore my site. It is for free. I give you very good websites that are about how to meet Ukraine girls online, concrete websites. I give you many websites I recommend for free Ukrainian dating for love, that Western European and American guys do not know about.
I personally know many girls from Western Ukraine but often the best ones are the hardest to get and find. Consider a trip to Ukraine and you will meet girls in Lviv and Ternopil other guys will not ever meet as they are too lazy to travel. You could learn Ukrainian a little.
You can take a flight to Lviv or Krakow. If you fly to Krakow there is a bus and a train that leave to Lviv. The bus to Ukraine leaves every night at the train station, but I think its easier to fly directly to Ukraine. I have even walked over the Ukrainian boarder and hitch hiked. Usually the low cost methods you will meet better girls, often student girls.
If you have any questions about Ukrainian girls for love and love Ukraine or Europe please write. However, use proper grammar and punctuation, not in chat style.
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29 responses to Ukrainian girls of European Ukraine for love
Dorinta mea ,as vrea sa vorbesc o fata frumoasa si deasteapta din Ukrania pentru iubire ,bineteles o sa fie nevastain viitor.
Hi,
I’m from Sweden/Stockholm and I am interested in marrying an Ukrainian girl.
Joseph, how old are you, have you started to look? I can give you advice. What are you looking for in a Ukrainian girl.
Beauty is one of the main reason why i would like to marry an Ukrainian girl but sure its not the most important thing. I’m not looking for a short term relation. I did have those kind of relations enough in my past.
What am i looking ? Actually am not tall. Just 173cm. So would prefer someone shorter than me and someone who can speak enough English to communicate each other. And sure someone who will want to live in Sweden.
I am 33 years old and i will be happy with your advice admin…
Joseph, if you live in Sweden this is very close to Ukraine, no problem. I am an American that lives in Poland and goes to Ukraine a lot. I am married.
Sweden and Ukraine has historical connections what are over 1000 years old if you read about the Kievian Rus.
Anyway, here is what you might do. Check out some sites like vkontakte.ru and search Ukraine. They have an English interface or use translate. Also try love.mail.ru
If you search my post I have some list of Ukrainian sites also, but you can start with these for example and search in Ukraine.
They are for Ukrainians so they are not western dating sites, but rather mail servers that everyone uses in Ukraine.
I think if you live in Sweden start taking vacations in Sweden. Go to Lviv. Lviv is a Ukrainian city that does not have the Russian influence. Go to Crimea for vacation. Go to Kiev maybe but this is a big city with different ethics a little, but many beautiful Ukrainian girls.
Try these three places. If you dress normal you will do fine.
Your a good height, not problem 173cm is quite ok for any girl, believe me, my friends at that height do not have problems, in fact many girls like this, really. They do not like some big meaty guy with no brain.
Many girls in Ukraine speak English.
Many Ukrainian girls would move to Europe with you and not for your citizenship, rather if they love you they will follow you to the ends of the earth.
If you are romantic, you will have no problem with Ukrainian girls, if you are not I recommend become romantic and learn some love phrases in Ukrainian.
Meet girls on the street in a shop. You can go to a disco, but you will compete with a lot of guys who are trying to pick up girls for fun. I prefer to meet girls in normal places during the day. Just walk up to them and ask directions or something lame like that and then talk.
Do not choose the first girl you see rather collect e-mails and numbers. Maybe on your first trip 100 e-mails and then from there when you are in Sweden write the ones you feel you connect with spiritually or mentally.
Many Ukrainian girls are religious, some are not. So you need to consider this. I am religious and would only date a faithful Ukrainian girl. If you are not find one who has similar values.
Main thing is collect e-mails of Ukrainian girls that you could fall in love with. Then from there its up to you.
I usually stay in apartments for trips longer than a week, hotels in Ukraine can be western prices. I prefer cheap Ukrainian hostels or hotels or apartments.
Let me know if you have any regarding Ukrainian girls who might want to live in Europe for love and marriage.
I don’t know how to thank you.. Not just because of your advises but also for being so kind.
Frankly speaking i am bored of short term relations and i am completely not interested in that kind of relations. Otherwise its much easier here in Sweden. I am interested and looking for marriage…
Why am i looking for Ukrainian but not Swedish ?
I did try many times before. But now I am sure that they are not my type. Not warm enough maybe. I don’t even know how to tell the reason of that. But i’ve some friends who are married with Ukrainian girls and beside their beauty, i see that they love their partners/husbands very much. And they are much much warm and kind than any typical Swedish woman.
Frankly speaking i don’t know when i can be able to go Ukraine for sightseeing or holiday. But maybe next summer. I hope so… And actually i dont think that i can stay at someones house (which you advise in your previous posts) due to i may be a shy guy ?
I am not that good to talk with a lady i’ve never seen (maybe because of am shy), but i guess i can ask for an address
I hope it will help..
And sure i will listen your other advises and i will check the websites. What can i say ? I hope that i can find someone will love me and i will love her… Thats what i want.
And once again thanks a lot for your very kind relation….
Joseph, You do not have to explain why, I am an American and married a Polish girl. I a very very happy everyday of my life. I think western women can be cold or really hard on guys, and unfair in marriage.
Ukrainian girls are just normal.
Who you marry is the most important choice of your life perhaps. There is no way I would marry an American girl. No way, even if forced to I would not. Although I dated many, they have different dreams than I.
Ukrainian girls are wonderful. I have many Ukrainian girls as friends, my grandparents were from Ukraine.
They are universally amazing.
I was very lucky to find my wife.
Just take your time. If you are shy, then go the internet route. Internet dating everyone does. I recommend lots of websites. A lot of my married friends met this way.
Who you marry will make your life happy or sad. More than job or anything.
hi everybody I want to say ukrainian girls is the best and sweet girls around the world
because i adore beauty and morals, and because i appreciate beauty and the marriage life, i am dreaming of finding my seconed half, she will be always in my heart and will be my princess.
Hi Admin,
I would like some advice from you please, i put myself on a dating website last year and met a girl originally from northern Russia who has lived in Alexandria in Ukraine since she was 6 and has a Ukrainian passport.
I have been to Kiev 3 times and met her in Turkey once in 9 months, i really like the girl but it is an expensive relationship for me as she is a 22 year old student (I am 31), how do i know if it’s real love or if she is using me for a passport of of the country and just using me for money?, I love the girl but I am not 100% sure she wants me or is more in love with the idea of leaving Eastern Europe, any advice you could give me would be appreciated.
Reg
Do not marry her unless you are 100% sure. I personally would ask her questions about her conception of marriage and views on God. Then I would observe if her behavior matches this (such as does she go to church weekly and say the rosary or her parents do). I would ask her indirect questions, like ‘well I have a friend that divorced because the man was verbally mean to her, what do you think?’ If she says this is ok, do not marry her. Read my post on ’should I get married’. claritaslux.com/girls/should-i-get-married/
You have to test her and check her with questions about morality in hypothetical situations but be cool about it so she does not think it is a test. Observe her reactions carefully. I know this seems bad, but all these are are hypothetical philosophy questions and this is about your whole life. You must know the truth. The truth is nothing to be afraid of.
Most Russian and Ukrainian girls in my experience are very moral and nice. However, I live in Eastern Europe so I meet them through friends etc. Part of my family lives in Ukraine and my friend works at a seminary in Ukraine. Very good sincere people. But in Ukraine, just like in any country, there are people who are not sincere.
Time and discussions about morality are important. Further, she must really believe what she says, this is why do not ask her directly, rather tell stories and see her reaction.
Also take your time. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
Also, it is assumed you will live in the USA. Tell her you would prefer to live in Ukraine and see her reaction. Also does this girl live in Kiev?, where is she from and what does she do for work. Is she a Ukrainian girl, Russian girl or Soviet girl in terms of mentality? Big difference in culture and know and understand this.
Reg
There isn’t a big difference between culture of Ukraine and Russia. Both are East Slavs.
And there is no such thing as “Soviet” anymore unless you refer to something before 1991.
Now as for this girl. I suggest you meet her family. If they are good, most likely she is good. If she looks like she only wants meal ticket, based on if her reactions are aggressive, then kick her away.
Western Ukrainians are catholic, speak Ukrainian and think Putin and the Russians are imperialist and oligarchs and want to join the EU and NATO. Eastern Ukrainians are Ukrainians but speak Russian and somewhere between Russian monarchist mentality and Kievians. They are orthodox but not as moral. Soviet girls are girls from the this new Russian thinking incubated during the Union. The ideas that infused the new Russians, where materialism is OK and making money not perfectly honestly, even if you have to compromises their morals is fine. They are Christians in name only.
I know a little about these areas as my family is from Ukraine, I have traveled to Ukraine and Russia many times. I am an American who has lived in Poland many years and studied Slavic languages and culture.
However, I am not an expert. But I do think you should understand what her thinking is about the world. Do not get married unless you know where she is coming from.
Most Ukrainians DO NOT want to join NATO or the EU.
Most Ukrainians are Eastern Orthodox Christians. Catholics are only 10 percent in Ukraine.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ukraine#Religion
I never said most are catholic, I said some are, the point that most are Orthodox as the large population centers are in the East is just a demographic fact. Lviv and Ternopil are the western centers which are catholic. But nonetheless regarding a girl for marriage her attitude towards life and morality is one of the most important things in the world. Having a girlfriend is one thing, but marriage is a very serious.
I would say more Ukrainians than not want western integration, the Russians are funding anti-NATO propaganda, for some strange reason.
Most Ukrainains don’t want to be part of NATO you idiot. The concept of NATO is useless. There is no more Soviet Union.
Most Ukranians do not even support the war in Iraq or Afghanistan, so they do not want to die for an American women.
Ukrainians want sovereignty. That is all. No one else interfering in their affairs whether Russian, U.S. or other European countries.
Oh my God, guys, how do you expect to marry a girl from Russia,or Ukraine,or any other Eastern block and be happy in marriage if all you do is calculate and analyse?Don’t you know that like attracts alike?I can’t believe what a gentleman says ” I love the girl but should I marry?” and the admin’s reply to that is “don’t rush…there’s plenty fish in the sea” WOW that’s really insightful. Would you rather listen to some Joseph or trust your own heart and feelings?This is the first thing that kills all the romanticism for us women (eastern or western or asian).If a girl marries you believing the bull… that you love her and she’s the one for you and then as you are together she feels that she’s been tricked in any way, and you give all your stupid insecurities about her using you, her finding someone else…bla bla bla rather than just loving her and earning her love everyday-you’ll lose her eventually for when a woman is not happy she looks for exit-ANY WOMAN, ANY NATIONALITY. Yes, Eastern European women maybe a bit nicer, warmer and kinder initially before they are spoilt by your own western mentality. Trust me if you want your marriage to last-you’ll have to change yourself maybe, and be nicer yourself and it is quite obligatory to plunge into the culture and learn the language. Only this way you can grow closer and make the marriage last.
Do not think that the advice is coming from a little knowing person, I am a Russian lady who has got experience in serious relationship with a western mentality. Btw wanted to add that the Admin’s subclassification of Ukranian girls into western and eastern is a little wrong. I’ve known people and not only girls from Western Ukraine that were really horrible with thief-like mentality and in lots of respects very difficult to live with (I was sharing accomodation with them). Had I not met one girl from the same area that was totally opposite and very nice, I would probebly be pretty prejudiced against them for a very long time. Even though it was per 10 Western Ukraine people I met-1 was different, I will still try to have an open attitude towards all people and nationalities until they prove me wrong. So please, my advice is do not be superficial yourselves, if you’re looking for love-HAVE LOVE INSIDE YOUR HEART to give as well otherwise it becomes a lonely street and gets tiresome and exhausting to give and love. Learn to love EMOTIONALLY yourself not RATIONALLY. CALCULATION kills the LOVE.
Yours,
Oksana
Oksana,
You sound like some fat obese American cow. If an Eastern European is “spoilt” and acts American it means two things 1) the man she is with is gay or 2) the woman is a weak minded.
Most EE women don’t act American cause they know they will face a fist. Second, your attitude indicates you are dumb and fat. You clearly are no real Russian or Ukrainian because you don’t act in a sophisticated European manner. You sound like a fat pig.
Oksana, I do not think I disagree at all with what you said. You can not plan and calculate love. What you have within after a while will become manifest outwardly. If you are insincere with your intentions and just look at it like what can I get out of this relationship, girls will see this with time.
However, most American guys I know, what to sincerely be in love and be married, at least the ones considering girls from Ukraine or Russia. The issue is American girls are culturally anti-husband, they see love as a part of their life not the whole. So if there is any calculation it is simply not to marry an American women, unless she other worldly. Besides that, no calculation at all. I traveled the world and was not looking to get married, I was just lovin my life, having fun, it just happened, when I least expected it. This is the best. Let destiny unfold, however, guys are the ones that must chase the girls, not the other way around.
Girls can afford to lay back and have it happen to them more than guys, because it is the guys responsibility to catch the girl. Its the girls nature to run away, until the man catches her, she fights to get away, until resistance is futile, and next she is cooking borscht barefoot in the kitchen happy and in love. She is humbly serving her prince and her prince is honoring and devoting himself to his princess and is her hero.
“until resistance is futile”
I liked that one. HAHAHA Admin, since when are you a Star Trek character ?
I’ve experienced that kind of thief-like mentality mentioned by Oksana, from a girl I dated, she was also strongly influenced by the circles of: father, friends, community, that I got to know later. Since we where not living together at the first year of our relationship and met once a week (she was living and working in another city in my country) she appeared to be very cheerful, vivid loving and enjoying good things of life: sunshine, walking, nature etc. (in a kind of Spartan way, eg. no drinks at all, even at any occasion like Birthday) but as she moved to me for some time – she became controlling so things got to be uncomfortable with her. (She was also controversial: Eg. hated usa and associated western mentality with it as the opposite side of the world, though she have not been there.
I think this is childish, and on the other hand liked to watch Hollywood movies in Russian.) I gave lots of attention and so on, this calculating mentality made our relation to be creepy, so I exited, but even my stuff left at her place was hard to get back. In my experience the thief mentality to put it simply: get what you can get, give nothing on the other hand (even attention, respect, faith and so on), gives you creepy feeling. Good luck, and take care. Ask proper questions fast from girls at the beginning!:)
Andreas,
Just because someone likes a certain a American thing like movies or music, it does not mean they have to like all other things America. That is not contradictory at all.
Dear Spatula,
I agree with you, this is true, it was my misconception.
And my case is a unique one, though there are lot of girls out there with that kind of harsh (thief-like materialistic approach. Our societies are more developed and equal (egalitarian) so there is no need for east slav girls to think and behave like in the oligarchy there.
Though we know in all societies women are more rational, eg. from film “the ugly truth”: that women think with their head and men are influenced by something else.
Best, Andreas
Hi Admin,
Firstly can i say i am from the UK, not from America, and secondly congratulations on being with a Polish girl admin, i dated a girl from Wroclaw a couple of years ago i met who was working in Glasgow.
But more to my point, i have dated many girls mainly from England or Scotland in my time, and have always been left dissapointed as british girls are all nice and happy during the honeymoon period of a relationship, but after a year or two, decide a serious relationship is not what they wan’t and like the soviet girls admin talks about are looking for what they can get out of a relationship.
Oksana i am not insecure in the slightest, and have no problem attracting women in my own country, i am dissapointed with british girls and have decided to try my luck with this girl living in Kiev, originally from northern Russia.
The opinion of many people in the UK though is that women from eastern europe or asia, is that the women from these countries are only after a passport out of there country for a better life, this is usually obvious though because you see a stunning girl of 21 with a 60 year old who would have no chance of a girl this age in the UK.
So im not insecure, and while i sympathise with girls who would like to leave ukraine, who feel trapped in their own country with a lack of opportunity to earn good money and travel, i wan’t to make sure the girl i am seeing really loves me and isn’t using me as a meal ticket, in the UK women sometimes earn more money than men but in our culture everything is equal while i get the feeling ukranian/russian women expect the man to be the sole provider, and while i am happy to look after the right woman i wan’t to marry the correct one.
I am a time in my life where i would like to settle down with the right lady, i would rather date a girl for a few years before committing to marriage but i know this girl can only stay with me legally if we marry, but i think the true test is to obtain a fiance visa because i think six months of living together will show if it is true love or a lie, because it will be different than spending a few days together in KIev.
Thankyou for your advice admin, it is much appreciated, Oksana if you have any useful advice it would also be appreciated, but bear in mind i am a very nice guy Oksana and do have love in my heart, i just don’t wan’t to be taken advantage of by a girl with a different agenda to me.
If i decide this girl is right for me, what is the best way to marry her?, in the Ukraine or in the UK after obtaining a fiancee visa?
Reg
Hi Admin,
Forgot to say she is a student and only does some part time work as she is busy with her study, she relies on help from her mother and grandmother, i have also left her some money each time i have visited to help her out a little bit.
Her mother ang grandmother live in Alexandria in Ukraine, maybe we will get the train to visit them but they cannot speak any english, i have tried to learn a bit of russian but im finding it very difficult.
Reg
I am married in Poland and my wife and I after many years are still on the honeymoon phase. I am not just saying that. I know many other guys like this also. UK girls on one level can be interesting, but you are right the honeymoon wears off fast as they are almost conditioned by the society they grow up in to compete with their man rather than see their man as their hero.
Ukrainian or Russian is not that hard to learn. I have learned Polish and working on Russian and Ukrainian. It seems hard as Brits and Americans (I am the latter) have unrealistic expectations on how to learn a language. If you want to learn Ukrainian try learning a few thousand words without any grammar. Learn them phonetically and with flashcards and if you can not remember the words use menumonics which you create for yourself. Better to send 20 minute creating your own link word for your target Ukrainian or Russian word you are trying to learn than just to try to remember it. I am making Russian and Ukrainian flashcards but they are not ready yet.
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