What is attractive on a girl?
Who am I am why do I know about what looks good on girls. I am an American living in Europe. I also have two sisters, a wife and a daughter. I have a lot of respect for women. I am also honest. I am not trying to sell you anything an not a company. I write my own language learning software. I am writing this because I feel a lot of women are mislead as to what is good looking and what they should buy. Companies spend lots of money on trying to convince you what is attractive on girls. My guy friends and I are all pretty good looking, intellectual and I think they would also agree with my views. Some guys will disagree but beauty is subjective. I do not dance around the issue, I tell you what I honestly think. If you disagree please let me know. But what I write might shock you.
Lets start with what is not attractive on a girl
Here is my list of things that are things that detract from a girls beauty.
- Hair color changes are not attractive on girls. Most girls hair looks fried, that is, their coloring damages their hair. Also the hair looks fake. I like real. I do not like fake. Guys like real girls. Hair is big money and big business. Give your wallet a break and try your natural color and you will see more guys will respond. I know girls will protest, but this is true. Natural looks great. I personally have some of the most attractive shinny hair, I get girls asking me all the time what I do. I wash it with only natural soap, but eat well and take vitamins. A very natural diet, no caffine or junk.
- Too much make up is not attractive on a girl. Basically a little lipstick is all girls need. If your skin is not perfect spend money on vitamins or something very natural that will help heal your skin not mask it. Do not be affraid of imperfections.
- Too much grooming. American girls have tons of cash and spend it on their looks. Every eyebrow and part of them looks like a well manicured lawn in suburbia, nothing out of place. This is boring. I like the wild, rustic look. Something thick eye browse look great.
- Body hair is good except on the face. Women are have OCD about shaving everything. They should go easy on themselves. It is instinctive to like hair, hair on a girl is good. Sure shave your legs but do not go crazy. Girls care more than guys. Girls do should not feel the need to pluck everything off so they look like a girl. Be a women, this is attractive.
- Shoulder length hair is not attractive. For me, shoulder length hair means, I do not want long beautiful hair as its too much work, nor do I have the guts to do something radical like cut it real short. So I will be another boring girl with a bob.
- Tattoos, I want a girl not a sailor.
- Facial moles, very not cool if they are big an ugly. I do not recommend many body modifications, but mole removal is not bad if it is ugly.
- Fat is not attractive. I like skinny girls as most guys do. This is why I think European, Russian, Ukrainian, Polish girls are much more attractive than American girls. Argue all you want, a girl who is skinny is attractive, a size 8 is not.
- Girls that are not humble are perhaps the biggest turn off.
- Perfume, its just petrochemicals on your body, why not use your own pheromones, this is attractive 100%.
- High heels look very uncomfortable to me and therefore no attractive.
- Foul language, smoking etc.
- Jewlery and anything in excess.
The secret to be an attractive girl
What than makes a girl look attractive?
Here is a list of thing that I think are attractive on a girl:
- Long hair or really short hair.
- Girls that show their face and do not cover it with hair.
- Thin girls.
- Glasses or not.
- Tight jeans and a t-shirt.
- See though shirts or tops.
- Earth tones or spring colors.
- Girls that keep fit.
- If you want to drive guys crazy try not wearing a bra.
- Girls that eat healthy are attractive.
- Brains and humility is attractive as well as wise girls. Stupid material girls are not.
In summary what is attractive on a girl?
Girls that spend money on looks are rarely attractive. Girls that walk a lot, and wear clothes that are not to pricey, jeans and a nice top or sweater, earth colors. Natural hair and look and lifestyle are beautiful. Basically do not spend money on making yourself look good. Any girl in Eastern Europe spending little, to no money on their looks, look great. Romanian, Russian girls etc total incomes might be a few hundred dollars a month. These European girls look much better than her American counter part spending cash on herself. If you want to really attract guys play chess, read books, do yoga, learn a language. This for me is interesting and attractive on a girl.
How a girl can be attractive
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70 responses to What is attractive on a girl
admin:
As a woman I agree with most of what you have said. But what I’ve been looking for has brought me to your site. Yes women should be natural, free, healthy and respectful. I’ve never seen a size 8 I live in Canada and I’m not sure what your size 8 means. I can’t imagine it being far off though. My 9 year old is a size 6 she is tall and looks like a surfer. I have always been bigger or so I thought so in my head. I’m 5.5 and at my smallest I was sick and skeleton at 145lbs which I find weird because my apparent ideal weight should be 133. Lets say now I am more, but not happy with it and I try. I play sports, hockey, badminton, volleyball, football I own a health food store I make all my own food I’m not a body builder but I have strong lower body top half I say is proportioned but soft and I hate it. I have men waiting for my husband to pass on or for me to be unfaithful. People telling me all the time how good I look. But I don’t feel it. And then you come out with the truth men don’t like big women. I don’t know what I’m trying to say. Can it be true that a bigger person can be healthy, apparently this is how I was made. God knows I’ve tried to change it short of surgery cause that is a waste of money. Any how in a weird way I liked what you had to say. I think more women need to take care of themselves and be humble and respectful. These bad attitudes that they have are not attractive at all or impressive. Thanks for your time
Take care
JJ
Some men like big women. The main thing is do not worry and be unhappy. Life is a gift and you should be happy with who you are. Really. And big women some men find this attractive.
However, most guys I know do not find this attractive on a girl. I do not. I know a big thing in American culture is like the fairy-tale – ‘The kings new clothes’, that is everyone is afraid to speak the truth.
I do not understand it. Explain this to me. I live in Europe where almost all the women are thin, and I keep getting e-mails from American girls that say they are big boned or would have to starve themselves to get to a reasonable weight. I do not see big boned women where I am from. This is basically the same genetic pool of people. Therefore, the only explanation is it is just a different lifestyle. I know vegetarians that are huge, I know people who work in health food stores are large. It has nothing to do with it.
It is connected to physical activity and caloric intake in most cases.
My first question to big women is
Do you have a car?
Sorry if I sound rude – I am not a rude person at all. I just want to be honest.
I think the most important thing is to be happy with yourself. If you want to change try weight watchers. I think it is a great organization. I do not want to make anyone unhappy. That being said I nor any of my friends would ever go out with a girl who was not thin. I do not find fat attractive on a woman. Some curves are ok, like on their rear, but not on their stomach. Sorry to get exact.
Admin,
I agree with you but the WAY you present your info is lousy.
Let’s start:
“This is basically the same genetic pool of people”
This is quite false. White people in America are mostly of German, Irish, and English ancestery in respective order. There are other groups, but they are not top 3 in dominant genetics.
Germany, Ireland, and Britain, ALL are full of mostly fat women. Do you SEE the pattern ??? They are of virtually same genetic stock which is why they are mostly fat. But Eastern Europeans like Polish, Czech, and Ukrainains are of different stock which is why they are mostly thin
“Do you have a car?”
I told you 100 times, that question is not useful for someone let’s say that lives in Mobile, Alabama or Denver, Colarado.
You know why ? Because most people in America live in areas of America, where they DO NOT have proper public transportation. So they DO need a car because MOST of America does NOT have
PEDESTRIAN-FRIENDLY cities, EXCEPT for inner areas New York, DC, Boston, and Chicago.
IF American cities REBUILD and make European style transporation in forms of rapid-transit like trams and urban subway trains, it WILL result in people walking and less driving. Telling people to not to drive their car, when there are no alternative forms of transportation is NOT an option and makes you sound like a moron when you tell them to abandon their car.
“I do not find fat attractive on a woman. Some curves are ok, like on their rear, but not on their stomach.”
I agree with this 100 percent. Bar none. This is in my book as well. A woman should have a nice rear, so it gives the feminine shape on a slim body.
My personal opinion there is little genetic difference between Eastern and Western Europeans. Why do I say this? Because they all came from the the Indo-European group of people which were one about ten thousand years ago.
Look I have seen it with my own eyes in the States. Skinny smaller Arabs or Asians or Indians come to America and in one generation or two they have very tall and big children. I knew some huge Turkish, Arab and Chinese guys and Indian guys. The steroeotype is these guys are smaller. But I think there may be some genetic component but I think it is mostly lifestyle.
I think people over play the genetic side and ‘its just my body card’, find excuse and I think that has nothing to do with genetics, it is diet and lifestyle.
I have seen Russian girls come to America and pork out.
The critical age seems to be about 20. If Russian girls come to America before 20 there is a high probability they can turn American, after 20 they stay more Russian and do not beef up.
I lived in NYC and Boston without a car. I live in Krakow without a car. If you live in the areas you talk about, you are right, you need a car more than the North East.
But still I would find another way, I would not have a fridge or keep food in the house. If it sounds extreme it is not. No time? Try jumping rope for 1/2 hour once or twice a day. Join weight watchers, talk to a nutritionist, get a personal trainer at the gym. I would find a way. Why? For me, I do this not to be attractive. Because it feels great to be light and full of life. Health care insurance, that’s nice, but more important is lifestyle. Everyone gets if they are lucky their four score years on this planet, but you can choose health or sloth.
I think Americans girls are not attractive because they are very soft. Really – When I visit Ukraine some villages have no running water or heat, only wood and wells. It has been -20 degrees here for a couple of weeks here. I hear only excuses from many American girls saying they try everything. Try living in a Ukrainian village for a year and I think your perspective on life will change. I think American girls are not attractive, mostly because they see themselves as top of the food chain.
You keep saying American’s I’m Canadian and Yes I have a car because it’s an 20 min drive to a store and 1hr drive to a shopping centre. We are in farm country which is alot of hard work. Our kids place OUTSIDE not infront of a box or play game things. So that stuff is not an issue. I’m confused because I’m not a rail. My sister in-law is. We do everything together and I have more stamina and gether done then she does. I’m not rollie polly. My legs are muscle nothing I can do about that. My belly is soft but it’s not a buldge and if you say sit up not fair because I do. I tore my muscles with kids sit ups just keep me where I am. I don’t have jiggle arms I don’t have back fat other that stomach you can not pinch much so my question is what is your thin. You say size 8 my sister in law (here in canada) is and 8 and she has been told if she wants another child she has to gain some she’s 10lbs under. So what is your size 8 that’s so BIG?
Admin,
Most Europeans are in fact Indo-Europeans. True. But within Indo-Europeans there are difference genetic stock. DIFFERENT regions of Europe were invaded by different people forever changing gene pool and culture.
Eastern Europe and Russia in general was invaded them most by Celts, Dacians, Greeks, Romans, Huns, Mongol and Turksmen and they left their gene pool.
Italy was Latin and then invaded by Germanic tribes, Celts, and then later one Some Arabs.
Fance, Portugal, and Spain were Latin, Gaul, Celts, then invaded by Arabs. Southern France was partially taken by Arabs.
Rest of Western and Northern Europe do NOT have much mixture. It’s mosly Celt, Anglo-Saxon, and some Nordics. British are not very diverse people.
That is how some parts of Europe are thin, while other are fat.
I seen Russian and Polish girls that came to the U.S. before they were 20 and none of them became American/fat. Some did, but most did not. The ones that came in their teens here did not become fat. The ones that came when they were really small, it’s another story.
Oh and we live in the first Polish comunity in canada and ALL the polish ladies here are FAT short and round. And 1/2 came here in their 40’s other born here. What is your theory on that?? And I’m not Polish Freach Indian.
JJ,
The “Polish” that that were there for four generations are NOT real Polish people. So that is why they are fat. They grew up over time according to the Anglo culture of Canada and became fat. Same story in the U.S.
Your opinions about what is attractive on a girl are strictly your own. I have lived a long time and have had conversations about personal preferences with my male friends from every socio-economic class and ethnic background (white, hispanic, Chinese, Vietnamese, African-American, etc, etc.) and each one had their own, unique preferences. Some like thin girls with long hair and small breasts. Many others like girls with big butts. MANY others just need want a girl with big breasts (despite one of your comments). Other’s prefer short girls, other’s tall girls. Some like meek girls and others are turned on by girls “with attitude”. Some even liked obsese girls, although not too many.
The point is that your generalizations about what men like are inaccurate. Maybe within your circle of friends (white, middle- upper-middle class males of a particular ehtnic background??) your generalizations are more accurate. But to suggest that your opinion is representative of all U.S. males is grossly off the mark.
This is not an attempt to be politically correct. It’s just a statement on human nature. Each of us is unique as to what we find appealing. For example, I am an upper, middle-class male of Northern European extraction but I love short, small-breasted, petite African-American women. Do I find the type of Eastern European women you describe attractive. Sure. I appreciate beauty in all it’s forms. But I find black women incredibly sensual and beautiful in a way that no other came come close to. And I know many other men who feel the same way. All men? No, of course not. But many.
The point being, you are speaking strictly for yourself here and should make it very clear that you do not represent even a majority of male preferences.
Every person is different in preference. I think I make this comment many times. Further I say these are huge generalizations. But yes my preference on what is attractive on a girls is a thin girl with wider hips and rounder backside and long legs and long hair, without much makeup or hair color. Is my preference. But I think that most of my friends agree as do sociological studies about men and attraction to women. There seems to be some golden ratios that apply to beauty. However, there could be culturally determined.
But me. I think thin, leggy natural women are attractive, like many Russian women. But if some guys likes some head-strong girl who is 20 lbs overweight and wearing sweat pants around town. To each his own. But I nor any of my friends find that attractive on a lady.
macavitydad.
I think you are kinda an idiot. There is no mention saying one race is better than the other. You were the first person on this page to mention black women. And if you would know, black women also come in many shades of black and many body types.
I pretty much more or less agree with Admin’s description on how a woman should look. Some things I disagree, but most regarding attraction he is correct.
Sir, your preferences are your own, and I fully respect them, but a man who purports to lambaste vast swathes of his own species should at least be expected to be somewhat proficient in the language with which he delivers he rhetoric. Just saying.
Also, as an aside, you seem quite unaware that the USA, UK and Ireland are all entirely different countries, and that specifically in the case of Ireland, there is no way that you can have any useful information on the Irish, morally or otherwise. It is a delightful conceit on the behalf of people from many varied countries that they think that living around the corner from ‘the McCarthys’ or any other generic Irish emigrant name will give them any real insight into a tiny and little known country. 3rd generation is no indicator.
Oh my days… what the hell?
is fat?!
Ive just read a few random comments and from what I can gather.. your saying that ’slim’ is Kate Moss and size uk 10 (i converted size
Kate Moss is anorexic and therefore.. unhealthy. Why do you want girls to read this and fricking starve themselves? Also.. some people just CANT achieve those sizes.. they have a different bone structure. Do you want them to be ashamed of their body because their hips arent size 0?
Im sorry.. but I’m 15 years old and a size 8/10(UK). Thats.. lets say the average size for most girls in my school.. and they are defenetely not fat!
Then you go and say that ‘fat’ girls have no sense of control.. you crazy? Im a girl that is rarely seen angry and is always stopping fights.. im a vegetarian ‘lets save the world and be friends’ type. Never drinks alchahol and has small meals (Sometimes skip on lunch if im busy). But still I am fat and out of control? Its true.. id rather be a size 6 (Uk).. but sometimes thats too skinny.
Seriously, do you really think a 10 yr old’s body is attractive? Cause thats what it seems that your asking for..
Well thats my little rant over. I hope you will wake up in the ‘real world’ and realize that a little bit of fat is healthy.
oh sorry.. I forgot to add. Im Italian-English-Japanese. So not american.. and as far as im aware.. the ‘european italian’ girls are exactly the same as the uk ones. Apart uk girls are smaller in height and seem weaker almost.
“European Italian’ girls are exactly the same as the UK ones”
You are really and stupid. UK girls are the fattest women in Europe. Italian and French girls are one of the most thinnest. Italians and French look nothing like the Anglo Brits.
dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1173148/British-women-dont-mind-Europes-biggest-French-females-slimmest-worry-weight.html
Kate Moss is ugly. She is anorexic. No sane man wants that. She has no butt on her. A real woman is thin/fit with some butt to her.
French women can be thin, but some are western neurotic. But this might not be the case. I am curious, I have only known a few French women, any ideas?
I don’t even now why any 1 would care for this mans opinion .. in my eyes he seems full of him self and spends to much time looking in the mirror at his shiny hair lol , and for to say that anything above a size 8 which is a European size 10 is so wrong every woman’s body shape is different some can be 14 bottom 6 top I’m a size 12 me and my boyfriend are very happy with my curves back and front lol so girls if you are happy with what u see back in the mirror stuff men like him sure no wonder he needs a blog …….
I agree with most of your points as well, less make up, natural hair are the most attractive qualities -they show you’re happy and confident with yourself and don’t need to put up any kind of front. Some of the least attractive girls/women I know feel the need to fake tan even during their break and this to me is ridiculous. I would be happier if my skin was whiter and more radiant rather than clogged up with chemicals.
I think the size issue will always be a debate. I’m 22, 5′4 and around a size 8. I really work to keep my figure, I work out 4/5 times a week, I don’t drink alcohol and I try to eat healthy -by that I mean I don’t over eat, I let myself have treats but I know my limits. Life is too short to worry too much about them kind of things.
In my opinion is that over weight is not good. It’s not attractive because it indicates a poor diet which can in turn give you poor skin and shows a lot about your lifestyle (personally I never watch tv, for instance, I would rather be at the gym than in front of Neighbors) and what you enjoy doing. It’s proven that people who exercise have more energy for life and are, generally, better spirited.
But that said I work for one of the UK’s leading fashion retailers part time and often do 4 hour shifts fitting denim as well as personal styling and I do believe everyone is different -you can be a size 12/14 and still be incredibly attractive if you are confident enough to be happy with what you see. But, if you’re the shrinking violet and hate everything about your 12/14 body then you do not come across as very attractive. Confidence is key, I say. Anything above a size 16 is generally medically overweight and so, regardless of attractiveness, probably isn’t good for you/your heart/your lungs etc.
I know I would rather be a size 6/8 than a size 14 because that is how I feel attractive (and trust me, I certainly get more male attention as a petite size 8 than a ‘curvy’ shortie). Some of it is how clothes fit and some of it is self esteem, maybe these tell size 8 women you speak of are just happier about themselves and therefore seem much more attractive..
Great reply. Size 6/8 is good. Further, you are right on about being more natural. I do not like girls that are fake baked in a sun tanning booth too many cosmetics and hair fried. I prefer natural hair and skin.
Do you want to look attractive? Be natural.
Why do you girls make life some complicated?
If you want to spend a little money here is how:
You could use light natural cosmetics something like L’Occitane, nice tight jeans on a thin or shapely body and a white designer t-shirt. And do not do anything with your hair. Let it grow and be natural. This look I do not think any guy could resist.
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